Men Are Like Buses

Soft Spot

Tue, 22 Apr 2008 16:05:07 +0200

H has found it.

Paranoia made an unexpected appearance. I caught a glimpse of "real" feelings towards a man.

He goes on a night out...I wonder if he will find it as easy as me.

I sought his reassurance and now the side is down.

Yet a blunt reply from me and he needs smothered in cotton wool to undo it. And then he is back on top.

C is lording my sexual attraction to him over me. I hate that.

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Drunken Disgrace

Thu, 17 Apr 2008 16:47:38 +0200

I met D for that drink which morphed into a dvd in his apartment, which morphed into 3 bottles of wine and a beer, which morphed into my own demise from my classy facade to a hammered slut.

He was the gentleman. I left unsatisfied....the humiliation didn't creep in until morning.

He kissed me when he walked me home. But ignored my offer to come up and my offer after that.

A phone call this morning told me that he would never have slept with me on a first date. That he has more respect for me than that. That he wants to "do it again sometime".

I presume he knows that I would have happily fucked him in an alley on the way home. That I was desperately horny and worked up.

Of all the men in my life right now he's the one left me wanting more.

Not a slut. A girl making up some time after a 3 year relationship.

Somewhere during that 3 year ellipsis a large handful of men had their balls lanced off.

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A Helpful Hand

Tue, 15 Apr 2008 15:55:53 +0200

Last night I decided to partake in some charity work. I know not for what charity.

The usual crowd. Jumped up City folk. Brown nosers. Conservative and out-of-touch suits. Snotty jokes. Misguided comments.

It was the perfect excuse. To blow money I couldn't afford on a dress. To eat eggs that come from quail and steaks that come from any animal other than the vintage cow. To drink champagne and snort cocaine with the rest. To take the party to a large hotel suite into the wee hours. To have wasted sex with the fellow employee who always drags me kicking and screaming through the night. To wake up in the image of a distressed prom queen. To take coke at 9am in preparation for the company meeting.

Today though, I tie my hair back. I give my presentation. I phone H and act like nothing happened.

He asks me what my pick-me-up was, I tell him coffee.

Until next time let us all raise our glasses to the poverty-stricken, the homeless, the ill and the decrepit. What a fulfilling and life affirming task last night was.

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Lost Communication

Mon, 14 Apr 2008 14:34:02 +0200

H is coming over as sensitive and sentimental. Sweet. Lovely. Disgustingly cheesy. A turn off.

And when none of the above, he slips back to demanding and tough to take.

I have a drink to look forward to with D - pretentious, attractive, upbeat, funny, innocent but in control. Genuine. I think.

The 600 miles is making me think a drink with another man isn't an issue.

H has quite possibly been shagging away. Not being able to look into his gorgeous and dangerously convincing eyes is either making me wiser or unnecessarily mistrustful.

Meanwhile C continues his mind games. His lifting and laying. Starting to force some distance between us now.

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Exclusive

Wed, 09 Apr 2008 12:56:35 +0200

When a relationship becomes 'exclusive', what does it mean?

That word encapsulates so much in modern relationships.

Now I'm 'exclusive' with H. Does it mean the same level of commitment even though there is a distance of 600 miles?

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My Distraction

Fri, 28 Mar 2008 15:42:42 +0100

With H blowing hot and cold, C has made himself my distraction.

That man can play a girl like a fiddle.

After our hot night he drops a line, I always bite, he reels me in and throws me back before I get comfortable.

I can't beat this one.

He's sweet and kind but also the ultimate player.

When I phoned him last night and the conversation turned to sex he got involved and then before it got anywhere said goodbye.

No, he got me involved, I don't think he ever was.

In fact, I'm not sure if I know him at all.

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Anxiously Waiting

Wed, 26 Mar 2008 15:46:53 +0100

Called H last night and asked if he was free so I could go round.

For breathing space I made my excuses and went round this morning instead. Maybe it was nerves but the sex wasn't as good.

His mind was blown.

A brief conversation and he had to go to work.

A promise he'd send a message later today and I'm still waiting. I expect my instincts are right.

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Resisting Temptation

Tue, 25 Mar 2008 17:12:24 +0100

According to him, H is leaving the ball in my court still.

I almost fell into the trap but I got myself out of it at the last minute.

I need to know if we actually can have anything more than sex or if he is attempting to charm me with his words. I was careful not to take it in but he was beginning to make his imprint.

Why couldn't he have said nothing and kept it purely physical?

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Sordid Date

Thu, 20 Mar 2008 16:12:22 +0100

To take my mind off H, I had a date last night with C.

Three years ago C was verging on my type, now he prematurely fits the persona of an almost overweight, middle-aged businessman. I was disappointed.

His conversation was dull, his suit duller. At the same time he was charming and said all the right things.

When he touched my knee there was electricity. When he leaned over and kissed me into nothing I knew where it was going.

Still not convinced I slowed down my drinking when he suggested we head back to mine, drawing out the time to make my decision.

As we waited for the taxi he came up behind me and wrapped his arms around me. It was wrong but I wanted him.

At home he took off his shirt to reveal the stomach that had been protruding over his waistband all night. I didn't like his scent. It wasn't bad but unfamiliar and seedy.

The sex was rough but he took his time. It was dirty and I had no control. I was out of my depth but I want it again.

He left last night, I didn't want him to spend the night in my bed.

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Burning Loins

Wed, 19 Mar 2008 18:50:44 +0100

I've put a stop on sex until I get my head straight.

Thing is it's leaving me wanting him more.

He hasn't been in touch for 2 days and while I feel used, it's making me want him more.

I want to be rolling around in bed with him right now. Just thinking about it is making me horny as hell. Do I call or do I wait?

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