When a relationship becomes 'exclusive', what does it mean?
That word encapsulates so much in modern relationships.
Now I'm 'exclusive' with H. Does it mean the same level of commitment even though there is a distance of 600 miles?
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- 2008-04-10 @ 21:49:37
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Lookingforsomething
- 2008-04-14 @ 14:25:37
Well put! And I agree. How anyone can hand over everything to someone you barely see I don't know.
From my own observations I'd love to know when certain guys turned from cunts to complete pussies?! It might look like I'm dying for a relationship but quite the contrary. Until these guys came along I was living my life dazed and confused but happy. Just seems to me you guys don't have a goddamn clue what you want! Apologies for the stereotype.-
- 2008-04-14 @ 17:45:41
Do not apologize, for i fall not into the aforementioned stereotype. I'm stuck in the old skool, when men were men, and girls were smelly things.
I cant speak for all mankind, but its obvious that most yound dudes nowadays are fucking soft - i mean come on, the haircuts say it all.
Any man who dyes his hair should be shot.
Dazed and confused i can relate to, wafting along like this is proably the most constructive way to abide by the rules of life.
Im guessing the guys you meet may appear to not know what they want when in your presence as they may find you a threat? Strong women make guys feel uneasy i think.
My problem is that im too cold, if there is such a thing. I truely dont give a fuck about anyone, or how they feel. This can be a problem when people start to get upset in my company as i have no sympathy. Life is hard on me, so i got hard with life...
Bear in mind you are down south though, and Scottish people are rock hard in terms of emotion, English people i find to be very soft and institutionalised by TV and Newspapers. They think what they see people acting like in soaps is how to act in real life...Plus they are English. heh.
Sorry for the long reply, relationships and how people see them intrests me to no end.
B
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Lookingforsomething
- 2008-04-15 @ 15:41:05
There is a definite difference between your classic Glaswegian and typical Londoner. Although may I suggest that only a weak man is intimidated by a strong woman?
There is nothing wrong with being hardened to different situations and people. In my belief it is no worse than the namby pamby hippy types that society appears to be producing nowadays.
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600 miles? In the words of an Eastenders actor 'You avin' a lawf intcha? '
Perrrrrrrrsonally, i dont think anything in exclusive over that distance. But thats just me - bearing in mind as you know, im a man - and all men are cunts. Therefore, I, am a Cunt.
Commitment does not exist over this distance for anyone, let alone a cunt.
I find the life you blog about to be very interesting, as it is so different to mine. Even when i was your age, i was more interested in jumping about in a club Coke'd out of my face than being in a relationship.
Relationships are over-rated though, by a long shot. My advice would be to just get on with things and not get hung up about these people your fiddling with (who even by your bland descriptions, sound like Weapons-Grade tossbag Hollyoaks wannabes)
I used to work as bouncer in Glasgow - harsh as it may sound we could spot the 'Players' a mile off, and used to enjoy smashing their heads off the urinals in the toilets - just becuase we could.
Sounds bad, but we really have to rid society of these morons for the human race to succeed.
You seem to have done well enough to get out of Scotland, so carry the vibe on and lift yourself above whatever it is your really looking for.
All the best my fellow countryman.
B